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Happy holidays!
As we close in on the end of the year it is customary to take some time to reflect.
This has been a tough year for many but there is never a way of predicting what life will bring us. We have all experienced both good and bad and know that it is always the way we deal with things that makes the difference.
Stress comes in all forms and life has a way of testing us, sometimes when we least expect it.
If you have had the good fortune of being in a loving relationship this year then you are likely to be feeling positive. People always fare better when they have the support of a caring partner.
During the holidays and as we move toward the New Year I thought it would be helpful to leave 2009 with some good advice for couples.
Therefore this month’s Newsletter is focused on "The Top 10 Things Every Couple Should Learn To Do". This article provides a simple guide to keeping your relationship positive and on track.
Have a wonderful holiday and a Happy New Year…see you in 2010!
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Top 10 Things
Top 10 Things Every Couple
Should Learn To Do
1) Employ humor
When people are dating they laugh, carry on and have fun with each other. Somehow the weight of everyday life gets in the way of enjoying each other’s company. If you have lost your sense of humor…try finding it again! (see my article on Humor and Its Benefits). Humor brings people together and makes for a more relaxed atmosphere. Everyone enjoys being entertained and laughter is contagious. Lighten up, be less serious and more playful, like when you were dating!
2) Promote dialogue
Communication means exchange, discussion and conversation between partners. For this to be effective each partner needs to listen attentively, speak without threatening or blaming the other and emphasize the positive. Share what is on your mind.
3) Be clear
If you are not sure about what you want from your partner, get clear before you bring it up. If you are dissatisfied and want things to get better then it is your...
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